By James A. Kinney


Would you like to experience more clarity, confidence and self-esteem? Would you like to be more in touch with your emotions and feelings? Do you sometimes feel lost or disconnected? Would you like to put your past behind you and get on with your life? If so, read on . . .

Breathwork is a powerful healing tool that can help you gain clarity and insight in areas of your life that seem to be unclear or challenging. It can also promote a deep sense of well being and power over your life. It is a specific breathing pattern that is typically done in a private session lasting 1 to 2 hours. Each session is different. So describing Breathwork would be like trying to describe a snowflake - no two are alike.

Breathwork is also highly experiential meaning that, not only are the sessions different from each other, but the experience of Breathwork is different for each person, too, which makes it nearly impossible to adequately describe the experience of a Breath session until you experience it for yourself.

There are three aspects of Breathwork: illumination, integration and purification. Each aspect works on five different levels simultaneously: physical, emotional, mental, spiritual and psychic. Illumination lifts you above the urgencies of your immediate situation and connects you with your super-conscious or Higher Self. This is where you receive the "ah-hahs" and the "That's why I do that!"

So, now you have a new perspective but how does that translate into action? You need to integrate your new way of thinking with the insight or illumination in order to be able to move through life differently. This is called integration. It is embodying the new perspective on a cellular level. Illumination is only an idea, a two-dimensional thought or concept. Well, that would be great if we lived in a two-dimensional world. But we live in a three-dimensional world that requires integration - which is the active part. If we don't have that piece, we are destined to stay where we are at, repeating old patterns. This is typically where traditional therapy gets stuck. It is the process of integration that brings the new perspective into our three-dimensional reality. Integration is what facilitates our transformation.

The purification process enables you to uncover and release previously stored emotions, old patterns and unacknowledged feelings that prevent you from enjoying your life and relationships the way you want. In doing this, you are purifying your system of toxic materials and emotions. Often, without medication, people have experienced a regression of illness or disease because it was emotionally based. Even if you were not having physical manifestations, you will feel different, more alive, have more joy in your life. I have also witnessed physical changes in a person's countenance. Where they once were holding anger or pain, their face looks lighter and softer after Breathwork.

Your Breathwork experience will involve all five levels - whether you are aware of it or not - as you experience one or more of the three aspects during a Breath session.

Breathwork teaches you to take your breath - the life force energy - deep into your stomach, releasing suppressed emotions and stored energy. You will learn that your feelings are your guides, not your enemy.

With Breathwork, you will: Experience an increase in your vitality and enthusiasm for life. Deepen your self-understanding, self-confidence and self-esteem. Increase your self-approval and spontaneous self-expression. Discover deep relaxation due to release of stress and physical tension.

Achieve balance of your mind and emotions. Experience heightened intuitive abilities. Increase your problem solving and coping capacities. Improve your sexual response and enjoyment. Enjoy more satisfying levels of intimacy with loved ones. Resolve your major life issues and get on with your life. And much, much more!

The Breathwork Practitioner's primary role is to create and maintain the feeling of safety so that you can breathe through whatever comes into your awareness. Most Breath sessions begin with stating an intention of what you would like to get out of your session such as the desire to move through a specific issue that has been challenging you. Thus, stating your intention starts you on your guided mission.

One of the things I like to do is teach you how to connect with your inner guidance, which helps you remember that you have all the answers within yourself. It is your inner guide, what I like to call your Higher Self or your connection to Spirit, that ultimately leads you down the path of awareness and clarity. And, a gifted Practitioner intuitively knows when during the Breath session to offer some specific words of support that furthers you down the path to greater insight or a deeper emotional release.

Normally, when we are faced with an emotional roadblock, our fear stops us from moving through it. The Practitioner is there to maintain the space of safety so that you can breathe through whatever would normally stop you.

As individuals, we can only go as far as our fears will allow us to go. The Practitioner is there to help hold the space for you and not let your fear become your driver. You are in control. You are not your fear!

In my role as Breathwork Practitioner, I am gifted with the ability to see a vision of your experience in a situation. This piece of information may be the missing piece that your fear has been blocking, preventing you from moving through this issue. I am able to use my insight to guide you through whatever you are experiencing to achieve illumination and purification and help you integrate your new perspective.

I can also sense energy. Emotion is energy and I can feel where the energy is not flowing in your body. I can have you focus your breath in that specific area of your body and ask you, "What are you feeling here?" In doing that, I create an opening for you to get an insight about something that you weren't looking at, or maybe it is a missing piece of the puzzle that you needed to see. By guiding your focus to an area of which you were unaware or avoiding, I can aid you in removing the emotional block and allow the energy to flow freely again.

An emotion, such as fear, anger or hurt, is formed energy or matter. If it is not released, the energy is stored in your body. For example, when somebody scares you or you get frightened, what is the first thing you do? You hold your breath.

However, this blocks your fear from being released. Energetically speaking, you have suppressed your fear. This fear - this energy - is suppressed and therefore must find a place to go within your body. Everybody places his or her fear some place differently. You have essentially told your body: "Okay, I am going to hold on to that emotion. I don't want to think about it, feel it, or deal with it so I will place it over here where I can keep a tight lid on it!" And the next time something comes up, and you feel afraid, your body-mind system, like a computer, goes, "Oh, fear - that goes over here."

Over time, you may not even realize when your body is experiencing fear or any other emotion, for that matter. You have become emotionally numb! The more that you suppress your emotions, the more numb you become to all your emotions - positive and negative. The greater the ability to feel your anger, fear and hurt, the greater your ability to feel and express your joy, happiness and love.

The building of stored emotions or energy is toxic to the mind-body system and it reacts accordingly. Depending on the length of time and severity, suppressing your emotions can physically manifest in the form of aches and pain, sores, excess weight, illness, addictions, cancer and general disease.

If you have a weight problem, for example, and have tried over the years to lose weight, you may want to consider that your excess weight is actually the weight of your unresolved emotional baggage. "It's not what you are eating, it's what's eating you!" If your physical body is not large enough to contain these emotions, then it has to increase itself in size. Releasing your stored emotion will release your stored weight!

You can go months without food. You can go days without water but you can't go but a few minutes without breathing. Your breath is your life force!

You determine the quality of your life by the quality of your breathing. Typically, people tend to be very shallow breathers, especially if they are anxious or under stress - which seems to be almost an every day occurrence! But what really happens is the cumulative effect of sustained stress and shallow breathing causes you to experience feelings of uneasiness, being lost and disconnected, out of control, less alive and emotionally numb.

You try to take a deep breath but as soon you do, you start tapping into those feelings that you unconsciously or consciously were trying to suppress. Hence, more fear is created. You don't want to feel this, so you take shallower breaths. You are thinking, "If the world would just slow down, then I could catch my breath!" But the world seems to only spin faster and faster.

And, consequently, your breath gets shallower and shallower as you continue to brace yourself against life. You are living in fear - fear of life and what will come at you next. Your strength and will are dwindling. Your breath continues to get even shallower which deepens the feeling of fear and panic. Again, you try to catch your breath and the vicious circle continues. Does this scenario sound all too familiar?

The power of breath works the other way, too. When you breathe deeply and are doing this consistently, you feel more connected, more open and calm. You know your truth and express your thoughts and feelings easily. You do not react to situations. You are able to respond to them with insight and clarity. This is what Breathwork can do for you!

Jim Kinney has been a Breathworker and relationship coach for many years. He is also a Shamanic Dreamworker and has the unique ability to receive visions of a person's obstacles and emotional blocks, which enable him to clearly guide his client through whatever he/she is experiencing in order to achieve illumination, purification and integration of a new perspective. He also has the ability to sense energy and knows where it is not flowing within a person's body and can aid his client in releasing the emotional blockage to allow the energy to flow freely again. With locations in San Diego and Newport Beach, Jim can be reached at (619) 689-9722 or through Anne Monaghan at (714) 722-2933.

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